How to Keep Your Man

For those of you ladies who are wondering lately why your relationship with your man seems to be drifting away no matter how hard you try to hold on to it and for those who are just starting a relationship and thinking how it would last, here's my small piece of advice which might just make a big difference...You know what men hate most? CONTROL! Just like everyone else, they don't want to be put under control. What I realized is that whether we know it or not, women tend to try to control their men. It can start from very small ways of doing it. In the start, men can tolerate and try to give to our every wish. But the more they give, the more we want, to the point that they can't just take anymore. I don't speak for all but this is a common scenario in relationships whether we admit it or not. I read from somewhere that a relationship is like a dance. There are times that the couple dance close to each other and there are times they dance apart but they still dance to the same rhythm and move creating a harmony in their actions. There is no room for protective clutches that prevent anyone of them from moving and showing their grace. This is really true I guess. In a relationship, take out CONTROL and things will work better. Put more TRUST, FORGIVENESS of shortcomings and living and enjoying the present to the fullest. Soon enough, those insecurities will fly away and give the confidence in us to stay happy and contented. Let go and your man will come back to you more than ever with willingness and more love...